Honoring the Victims at Tree of Life Synagogue

We gathered as a community on 11/3/18 a week after the carnage in Pittsburgh – Jews, Christians, Muslims – people of faith and people of no faith – to remind ourselves that across the millennia, in different places and cultures “do unto others” arose as a central ethic of communal responsibility and remains to this day the path that brings shalom – peace and wholeness.

A local newspaper report of our gathering may be viewed here.

One of our guests wrote a poem that he wrote for the occasion and recited to those gathered.  It invites reflection and resolve. We thank Harvey Trieff for his words.

Being a Jew by Harvey Trieff

In cattle cars we went to the camps,

On our arms we all had stamps.

Our names were changed to a purple tattoo,

Mine ended in “1”,

Yours ended in “2”.

Could this feeling of horror

Once more be repeated?

Have my tears of sorrow

Not yet been depleted?

Into a Pittsburgh synagogue,

On the eve of a peaceful Shabbat.

Walked a crazy deranged demagogue,

And 11 innocent Jews were shot.

They came to pray in that sacred place,

And spoke to God from a pew.

Now they speak to God face to face,

Guilty of nothing but being a Jew.

Is it too late to end this hate?

Is there nothing that we can do?

We need to reflect,

to practice respect.

That’s the meaning of being a Jew.

 

Harvey Trieff resides in Fall River with his wife Judy. They have 2 daughters and 3 grandchildren. Harvey is a member of Temple Beth El in Fall River and served as a member of its Board of Directors. 

He is currently the owner and operator of “At Your Service”, a Limousine and Courier company. He is active in Rotary International, having served as past President and currently serving as Secretary of the Rotary Club of Fall River.

Previously Harvey was a co-owner of Center Garment Company. An apparel manufacturing factory 

He enjoys spending time with family, playing golf and writing poetry.

 

 

Jewish Music Roundup – Today’s Find – 9/21/2018

Here, embedded into the post rather than linked to, a wonderful young woman, still a teen, who won Beit Sefer L’Musika a few years ago (young people’s school of music singing competition in Israel).  It’s interesting to see how songs with religious themes permeate Israeli culture – much of it secular – in a different way than such music does in other parts of the world.

Jewish Music Roundup – Today’s Find – 9/20/2018

Good afternoon – enjoy Nigun Atik (an ancient melody) played on the dulcimer (click here).  There are many videos of the traditional Israeli folk dance for this melody.  Click here for one version.  Enjoy.  And, may the year 5779 be a happy and healthy one for you and your family, full of many blessings . . . and, remember, you can be a blessing for someone else.  Do a good deed!!

Right Now, It’s Like This – A Rosh Hashanah Message

On the first day of Rosh Hashanah, Monday, September 10, 2018, Rabbi Heath included a teaching from Jay Michaelson – author of books such as God in Your Body: Kabbalah, Mindfulness and Embodied Spiritual Practice and Everything is God: The Radical Path of Non-Dual Judaism.

Jay’s teaching appeared an email newsletter (Meditation Weekly #66) from the 10% Happier team who offer, an app dedicated to promoting spiritual/mental health through a wide variety of meditations. 10% Happier’s subtitle is “Meditation for the Fidgety Skeptic.”

Here is Jay’s teaching:

 

Right Now, It’s Like This
By Jay Michaelson
One of my favorite meditation teachers is a US-born Thai monk named Ajahn Sumedho. Now 84 years old, Sumedho has very simple saying that, in a way, encapsulates the whole point of meditation: “Right now, it’s like this.”

What does that mean?

Every animal, down to the microscopic level, wants more of the good stuff and less of the bad. Poke a paramecium, and it recoils. Put it near some sugar, and it goes for it. (Note: I know nothing about paramecia. I’m making this up.) That is how life works.

And yet, it’s also why we’re unhappy. Because, as Mick Jagger pointed out a few years ago, you can’t always get what you want. What if it were possible, instead of focusing on what you don’t like about a given situation – crying babies, crawling traffic, loneliness, obnoxious co-workers – you could just say “right now, it’s like this”?

You’re not saying it’s okay, or that you’re okay with it. Not at all! Maybe it actually sucks. But you’re saying, like that annoying cliché, it is what it is. It feels like this, it sounds like that, that’s what it’s like and I can just co-exist with it without freaking out.

Another benefit of “right now, it’s like this” is what it doesn’t say. Normally, when I get angry, I go into a long series of thoughts about what’s wrong with the situation: it should be like this, they should be like that. I’m right, they’re wrong. This sucks. “Right now, it’s like this” just doesn’t get involved in all that. Again, it’s not saying that they’re right, or you should be less angry, or you’re a bad person for being angry, or anything like that. It’s just saying it’s like this – nothing more.

Sometimes, you might find that a phrase like that gives you enough of a pause to actually do your meditation practice, right there in the middle of the suck. What is going on? How many things can you tell me about what is actually happening right now? What else is happening?

And then, hey, give yourself a break. If you find your jaw is clenched in anger, unclench it. If you’re hungry, eat something. You might even notice that you can be okay with whatever isn’t okay. Maybe not every time, but sometimes, “right now, it’s like this” is a gateway to just relating to whatever’s happening, outside and inside, as just sensations coming and going. Rather than something to be pushed away, you might be able to simply let it be. To inhabit the cliché of “it is what it is” and nothing more.

And, if something nice is happening, it can taste very sweet to say “right now, it’s like this.” It’s a way of seizing the day, one sandwich at a time. (Shout-out here to Warren Zevon, who, when he was diagnosed with terminal illness, told David Letterman that the greatest lesson he’d learned was to “enjoy every sandwich.”)

Finally, “right now, it’s like this” is, in a very subtle way, relaxing. Just dropping the effort to grab onto what’s happening, or reject what’s happening… feels good. It’s not quite a hammock on the beach in Bermuda, but it is a little vacation nonetheless.

Give it a shot. Or don’t! Either way, right now, it’s like this.

This is easier said than done. To give it a go, Joseph Goldstein walks us through overcoming reactivity and building the skill of acceptance in the following meditation:

Try ‘Accepting the Unpleasant’ (in the app)

Shabbat Morning Services – October 2018

  • Shabbat October 6, 2018—Services @ 9:00 AM—Shabbat Rishona                                               
  • 27 Tishrei 5779 Parashat Bereishit
  • Adult Study: Body Ethics—Jewish Views on Vegetarianism
  • Shabbat morning schedule
    • 9:00 AM – We begin gathering/setting up/getting ready
    • 9:15 AM – Children/students in the vestry for learning
    • 9:15 AM – Adults/teens in the sanctuary for prayer/worship/davening/Torah service (abbreviated)
    • 10:10 AM – Adults and children switch locations (vestry vs. sanctuary) so that that at 10:15 AM we change spaces so that  . . . .
    • 10:15 AM – Children/students in the sanctuary with Rabbi Heath for a kid-friendly Shabbat service. Parents only need to stay if their child can’t stay alone
    • 10:15 AM – Adults learning together in the vestry using handout/resource material on Body Ethics: Jewish Views on Vegetarianism.
    • 11:00 AM – Kiddush together in the vestry

Shabbat October 13, 2018—Services @ 9:00 AM                                                               

  • 4 Cheshvan 5779   Parashat Noah
  • Adult Study: Praying with Our Feet—Clean Water
  • Shabbat morning schedule
    • 9:00 AM – We begin gathering for the morning
    • 9:15 AM – Adult learning
    • 10:00 AM – Prayer/worship/davening/Torah service
    • 11:10 AM – Kiddush together in the vestry

Shabbat October 20, 2018—Services @ 9:00 AM — Book Discussion at 11:30 AM               

  • 11 Cheshvan 5779   Parashat Lekh Lekha
  • Adult Study: Heritage, Civilization and the Jews: The Power of the Word (500 BCE—200 CE) (view video in advance)
  • Shabbat morning schedule
    • 9:00 AM – We begin gathering for the morning
    • 9:15 AM – Adult learning
    • 10:00 AM – Prayer/worship/davening/Torah service
    • 11:10 AM – Kiddush together in the vestry
    • 11:30 AM—Book discussion after Kiddush—The Weight of Ink – Led by A.Kearnan

Shabbat October 27, 2018—Services @ 9:00 AM—JArts Shabbat—Alef Beats – A Cappella from Brown/RISD Hillel

  • 18 Cheshvan 5779 Parashat Vayera
  • Shabbat morning schedule
    • 9:00 AM – We begin gathering for the morning
    • 9:15 AM – Prayer/worship/davening/Torah service
    • 10:45 AM – Alef Beats a Cappella group from Brown/RISD Hillel
    • 11:30 AM – Kiddush together in the vestry

 

Shabbat Morning Services – September 2018

Shabbat September 1, 2018———NO SERVICES

  • 21 Elul 5778  Parashat Ki Tavo
  • Deuteronomy 26:1-29:8  Isaiah 60:1-60:22
  • Candle Lighting—7:00 PM, Friday, August 31
  • Havdalah—8:07 PM, Saturday, Sept. 1

 Shabbat September 8, 2018—Services @ 9:00 AM

  • 28 Elul 5778  Parashat Nitzavim
  • Deuteronomy 29:9-30:20   Isaiah 61:10-63:9
  • Candle Lighting—6:49 PM, Friday, September 7
  • Havdalah—7:55 PM, Saturday, September 8
  • Adult Study:  Introduction to This Year’s Shabbat Morning Adult Study

 Shabbat September 15, 2018—Services @ 9:00 AM

  • 6 Tishri 5779   Parashat Vayeilech   Shabbat Shuvah
  • Deuteronomy 31:1-31:30   Hosea 14:2-10, Michah 7:18-20, Joel 2:15-27
  • Candle Lighting—6:36 PM, Friday, September 14
  • Havdalah—7:43 PM, Saturday, September 15
  • Adult Study:  Kabbalah of Forgiveness

 Shabbat September 22, 2018—Services @ 9:00 AM

  • 13 Tishri 5779   Parashat Ha’azinu  
  • Deuteronomy 32:1-32:52   II Samuel 22:1-22:51
  • Candle Lighting—6:24 PM, Friday, September 21
  • Havdalah—7:30 PM, Saturday, September 22
  • Adult Study:  Heritage, Civilization and the Jews: A People is Born

 Shabbat September 29, 2018—Services @ 9:00 AM

  • 20 Tishri 5779   Shabbat Chol Ha Mo’eid Sukkot
  • Exodus 33:12-34:26, Numbers 29:6-31   Ezekiel 38:18-39:16
  • Candle Lighting—6:12 PM, Friday, September 28
  • Havdalah—7:18 PM, Saturday, September 29
  • Adult Study:  Body Ethics: Jewish Views on Abortion

The New York Cantors on PBS

What a great way to spend a late winter evening! 

In the greater Boston area, tune in on WGBH Channel 2 at 7:30 PM on Thursday March 8th for a wonderful hour-and-a-half of Jewish music.  Click HERE for a video clip.  

Enjoy beautiful sacred and secular songs from three rising stars on the world’s Jewish music scene.  Backed by a 33-piece orchestra and male choir, the cantors perform in Amsterdam’s revered 17th-century Sephardic synagogue known as “The Portuguese Synagogue”.  Click HERE for synagogue information.